Sexuality & intimacy
You want closeness. Your body and feelings may respond differently.
Individual hypnosis for exploring desire, tension, shame, and sexual response. You can come with a specific difficulty or simply a wish to understand your experience better.
- One to one
- Online
- English or Russian
What might bring you here
You want intimacy, but tension appears or desire fades when the moment comes.
You find yourself monitoring and evaluating what is happening instead of feeling it.
It is hard to tell a partner what you want, or to know it yourself.
Orgasm feels out of reach, takes too much effort, or has become a source of pressure.
Sexuality involves the body, emotions, relationships, and how you see yourself. A difficulty may appear in one situation or follow you through different relationships. We can begin with what you notice now, without going through your whole personal history.
When understanding is not enough
You may know there is nothing “wrong” with you and still feel fear, shame, or tension in intimacy. You may want pleasure while your attention is occupied with questions: How do I look? Am I responding the right way? Will it happen this time?
In hypnosis, we work with the feelings, images, expectations, and bodily sensations that arise in those moments. The aim is to explore what gets in the way of a freer response, not to command your body to perform.
You do not need a ready explanation or a perfectly defined goal.
What the work is like
We begin by discussing what you would like to change and how much you feel comfortable sharing. I then guide the work through conversation, attention, and imagination. You stay in control, can ask questions, and choose which details to share. This is private, professional work for adults: you remain clothed during the online session, with no sexual activity on camera.
Working with me
Sebastian Kristof
We can speak plainly about sexuality, even if you are not sure how to put the experience into words. I help explore the gap between what someone wants and how their feelings and body respond.
M.D. · Research background at Yale and UC San Diego · Certified hypnotherapist
More about me →You might be wondering
Do I have to share intimate details?
Only what feels comfortable and is useful for the work. A couple of sentences are enough for an initial message.
Can I come without my partner?
Yes. We work with your experience, responses, and choices. Your partner does not need to take part.
What if my question is about orgasm?
Yes. There is a separate page about difficulties with orgasm and curiosity about hypnotic orgasm, linked below.
You can begin with a simple question
Tell me what is happening or what you would like to explore. Your first message does not need to explain your personal life in detail.
Free 20-minute discovery callSend the message in WhatsApp and we’ll arrange a time together. The call is free, with no obligation to book.
For adults 18+. Pain or a sudden change in sexual function should also be discussed with a clinician. The practice described here is nonmedical.